I have been a very positive person, most of the situations that would have made others go mad with worry, would never effect me, In fact I would hardly spend few minutes dwelling on it. The reason is after years of practice i decided i will not waste any thoughts on things that would worry me and bring me down, and never ever to dwell on upsetting things, and I have my fair share of terrible circumstances, all that i do is i understand that i need to carry it to God so my head is cleared and during bad situations i wake up early and pray and i keep listening to good faith messages and after prayer i feel so strong and i feel that my God is so powerful that he can change my situation within no time. That way i remain very positive and very strong in God and that's exactly completely changes me into a positive person 

Praying for others is the biggest help one can do anyone, be it a friend a relative just about anyone prayer helps in invisible ways, you keep praying for someone and then one day you get to hear that god heard your prayers. What a blessing that would be. Make a list of everyone we know needs prayer, like some sickness, some need, job and when we pray we make that difference in someones life. I don't connect to anyone in my life, the way i connect to God. 

Sometimes, in life we go through situations that we really don't know how to handle and no matter how hard you try you cant change a thing. Then such situations there is only one way pray and pray. Prayer only can change the situations nobody can help, that's the kind of situation i'm going through at this moment in life. It scares me but i pray very hard when the fear overtakes me. I kneel down at the feet of god expecting a miracle and i know i wont be disappointed.